girlfriend is using match.com

The Author of this post is Darius Boone

I think my girlfriend wants to cheat on me. I know it is a bizarre notion to have, but I kept getting weird vibes from her. She started acting funny about a week ago, so I got suspicious. I hate not trusting someone and I hate snooping around, but she gave me no choice. I logged onto our Satellite internet Service and looked at her internet history. I was surprised to find match.com as a frequent site. Since we didn’t meet on match.com, it had to be something or someone new. After snooping further, I found her profile and was saddened to see she was actively looking for a different boyfriend. All of this made me so mad and so sad. I thought we had a great connection and I thought she might even be the one. However, now I don’t know what to do. Is it actually cheating to make a dating profile or is it just curiosity? I don’t know if I should bring it up or just see what happens in the next month. This entire situation has me so puzzled.

It’s Nice to See Again.

I had surgery to remove cataracts from my right eye about 2 weeks ago and I marvel on a daily basis about how bad my eyesight actually was.

For those who may not know what it is, cataracts is a problem where the lens of your eye over time becomes cloudy and starts to distort your vision. It is something that is primarily found when you get older. It comes on so slowly and gradually over years that you do not really notice how bad it is.

I found out when I went to an optometrist to get my glasses checked and found that my cataracts had reached the point where there was no correction possible through the use of glasses or contacts.

I had the first cataract removed on the 13th of December and it is the most fabulous thing ever. I am seeing a world I haven’t known for decades and that is with just one eye done. I go in this Tuesday to have my left eye done and I will be able see even better.

If there is anyone out there that is worried about the surgery I would highly recommend having it if needed. While it is like any surgery there are some risks and there is a vague possibility something could happen but it is so common and is done so often that complications are incredibly rare.

The procedure is very simple and it only takes about 10 minutes. The natural lens that is cloudy is removed from your eye and the new lens which is artificial, (acrylic in my case) is inserted. I had a little discomfort for a few hours right after the procedure, a little minor irritation the next day and I didn’t even notice it by the 3rd day.

If you need to have cataracts removed please do not be araid to have the procedure. Just make sure that the ophthalmologist that does the procedure has all your past and present medical information and please follow all the instructions given you for the pre and post operative time frames.

 

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What a Wonderful Day

I live for days like today. Sunny, very pleasant temperature and no rain. I realize that rain is needed for things to grow but we have had so very much in the past few months. I work a portion of my day outside, sometimes on ladders working up on cable lines and while I love this job to death, rain makes that part of it a bit unpleasant.

It also makes for some rough driving since so many people do not understand that when the weather gets bad you need to slow down because your car is not the same in rain, snow or ice as it is on dry pavement.

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Christmas shopping

 

I appreciate the guest post, Ignacio Phillips

In general, I’m not a big fan of advertisements for Christmas coming on direct TV when Halloween has barely passed by, but there is one thing I do appreciate about it – it reminds me to get a jump on present shopping so I don’t have to wait until the last minute. However, there’s only so much I can do ahead of time, especially since my sister and I do a large part of our shopping together, but live in different cities. We typically put our heads together on presents for both our parents and stepparents. Also, my mom is really big on stockings and is, in my opinion, the best stocking stuffer that I have ever met. My sister and I feel as if she needs to have an equally awesome stocking, so we wait until we get home to our parents’ house and get things together for that on Christmas Eve. Now, my mom starts shopping for stuffers way back in the spring and summer, so there’s no way that our efforts can hold a candle to hers. We have to give it a solid try though.

Did Everyone Have a Safe Halloween?

 

This post is a bit late but I was thinking last night about my trip home from work Halloween night.

So many areas handle it so very differently. As I was driving through the city, in some of the poorer neighborhoods, the kids were out in force and seemed to be having a great time but there did not seem to be nearly as much adult supervision as there should have been. People darting in and out from between parked cars, after dark and many in dark costumes, is a recipe for disaster.

I drive a work vehicle and as soon as I saw what was going on I probably irritated the drivers behind me because I dropped my speed way down and put on my four way flashers and the caution beacon on top of the truck.

I was able to relax a bit once out of the city and driving through the country although some caution was needed every time I came across a cluster of houses.

The best handled trick or treat was a small country town that I pass through on the way home. They had electronic flares along the center line of the road the length of town. There were emergency vehicles at every major intersection and fire fighters in reflective gear at the other cross streets to protect the kids.

It is amazing how trick or treat can be handled in such an incredibly different way by municipalities no more than 10 – 15 miles apart.

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The Occupy Movement. Are They Right?

 

The biggest problem with the occupy movement is that they have no real leadership to bring a focus on the goals.

With folks out yelling and waving signs it gets rather difficult to make out exactly what they want but I believe that I know.

They want jobs that pay well instead of the jobs that are offered now. Corporations are making record profits while offering lower and lower wages. This is the real problem over the years that caused a part of this trouble.

The wealthy were getting more and more wealthy, prices were increasing but salaries were staying flat so it became necessary for people to start using credit more and more to try and maintain a reasonable standard of living.

I do not expect anyone to be paid a lot just because they exist but there are millions of people out there that are absolutely critical to the day to day operations of many companies that are getting paid minimum wage or perhaps a tiny bit more.

This is because there are so many people looking for work that they can get anyone to do the job. The problem with that is that to some degree you get what you pay for and if you do not pay much???

There is no respect whatsoever for experience any longer and the government is just adding to that by paying lip service to the fact that there are companies that are not hiring the long unemployed or those that are older but they are not actually doing anything about it.

I am not a big fan of heavy regulations but for gods sake folks some regulations to keep things at least more or less in balance would be helpful.

I think most of the angst from the occupy folks is that they see us going back to the robber baron days of old.

Flying our colors for a patriotic holiday picnic

Guest post written by Tommy Prince

I'm a veteran, so the 4th of July is even more special to me. I can even trace back some of my ancestors to soldiers who fought in the

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Revolutionary War and helped our country win freedom. So every year I try to make my annual 4th of July picnic even more special. This year my grandkids are going to help me throw the picnic and doing the majority of the planning. But I'm still planning part of it just in case.

I was looking online for a picnic shelter for us to rent for the picnic and while I was doing that I saw the site http://www.hearingaids.Miracle-Ear.com. After I read through it some I decided to sign up for some hearing tests to see if I needed hearing aids. I would like to have some but we'll see what will happen after that.

I already got some flag tablecloths for our patriotic picnic to cover up the picnic tables with. I think that they're going to be really great for it. But of course the best part will be the food!